Thanks to everyone who has submitted their weave experiences! This topic hit home for a lot of you, so keep coming back for more interviews. And with that, here is Ashley’s story.
Please give some background information about yourself.
I’m a hairstylist and fashion student. I am a tender, but mature 21 year old Houston native, who enjoys everything fashion and beauty has to offer.
How do you wear your weave?
I wear my hair extensions in many different ways. I think that being a hairstylist is an art form, so I express my personality and creativity through my hair.
Why do you wear weave?
Weave is the modern day “IT” accessory. I can change up my look as much as I want. When I get a new weave I feel like a new character. With hair extensions, “I am every woman.”
Well said Ashley! Are you embarrassed to wear weave?
No, I’m not embarrassed about wearing a weave. It’s nothing to be embarrassed about, and people are beginning to embrace it more. Plus, I have beautiful hair underneath my weave (healthy hair comes first), so if I were in a room full of people and were asked to take my weave out, without any shame, I would unveil.
How do you feel about women that pretend that their weave is their natural hair?
I tell my clients all the time, “Stop frontin’. You have a great stylist that makes your weave believable, but embrace the weave—don’t lie to yourself.”
So I gather that you are open and honest about the fact that you wear weave?
Of course! It’s not a secret, and it shouldn’t be treated like one. I will wear my short, natural hair one day, then have tresses down my back the next. I’m happy to let others know I am weavalicious!
Have you ever had someone try to root you? (When someone feels your scalp/hair for tracks.)
I don’t let those haters touch my hair!
What is your friends/family reaction to your hair?
They absolutely love it! They marvel at the fact that I’m constantly re-inventing myself.
Okay, well how does your husband feel about your weave?
Now, that’s a whole other topic! He hates my weave. And it doesn’t matter what kind—he hates any kind of weave. He says he likes my natural hair better.
Name which celebrity, (black or white), whose weave you admire.
Tough question. I admire many celebrity weaves but my favorite would have to be Beyoncé. I know it’s totally cliché, but she definitely sets trends with her diva do’s!
Being a hairstylist, what styling tips would you give to help women maintain their weave?
There are so many, but a few are: Protect it at night—wrap it or wear a satin bonnet to prevent the frizzies. Shampoo gently—so your weave won’t tangle. And last but not least, don’t be heavy-handed with styling products! Too much product will make your weave look stiff—not a good look.
What advice would you give women considering wearing a weave?
Ladies, if you want something low-maintenance, fun and fabulous, then weave is for you!
Some women feel that women who choose to wear a weave want to be “white” or are denying their heritage by adopting long locks. What is your thoughts on this?
This is one of the reasons I wanted to participate in this, and I’m really glad I get an opportunity to answer this question. Most of us are NOT trying to make our hair look like our white counterparts. We are just exploring the many options that we have with our versatile hair. Black women have many different textures of hair, and they are ALL beautiful—kinky to straight.
I want to thank Ashley for her funny, engaging take on her weave experience!
Unbeweavable is a term I’ve coined that describes a woman who loves her weave. Do you love your weave? Addicted to your weave? Love the versatility that your weave provides? Contact me and share your Unbeweavable story. Have questions? Feel free to share your thoughts and views in the comments section.
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